deep-and-lovely said: Another reason its hard to find women who like AND admit to liking anal sex is because society still views it as demeaning. It happens a lot here too. Anal pictures and gifs are often accompanied by agressive, humiliating comments. I understand that this is a fetish for a lot of people, and I respect that. It simply saddens me how much it overlaps with anal, because we can't have a world where anal is normal and taboo free, AND a guilty, kinky secret pleasure at the same time.
Agreed, to a point. I think there’s totally a place for such comments, but they shouldn’t be the only view of anal out there. With this blog I try to maintain a mix of the multiple approaches to anal and anal only out there, especially the fact that it’s possible for people to simply love and prefer it because it feels better or turns them on to only use their asshole for pleasure. But there are so many approaches to anal sex that I like to feature others as well—with the exception of ones which treat it like something humiliating, totally degrading, painful or otherwise unpleasant.